Neculai Fantanaru

Everything Depends On The Leader

The Law Of The Unique Personality

On November 26, 2012
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Leadership Laws by Neculai Fantanaru

Trace the coordinates of your own identity, without substituting yourself to another personality.

I was in front of some truths that no one suspected them, feeding my spirit, expectations, with the false impression created by a bunch of unrevealed thoughts. Simple innovations, units, based on a unique center of depth to see, to seek and find what is not said in words or can not be explained rationally, pertaining to another reality.

An inner door, locked with many large bars, separated me by another space, another man, by another way of being, by a different purpose. As if I had consistently pleased the requirements of a new consciousness, the premise of a new becoming, build from a tough layer of knowledge, like a scientific and cultural establishment, functioning under the authority of a supreme council.

The words of Alexandre Dumas came back to my mind, smoothly and calculated, raising a doubt accompanied by an inner tremor, felt so powerful that the delicate strain of my creative energies, sometimes painful, persisted for several minutes:

"Investigate the past, investigate the present, try to predict the future, and look if not by chance you are a tool" . The tool of a force created by an Alter-Ego, only some fragments of images and thoughts that go crazy. Be careful not to get away from yourself, be careful not to get lost in someone else's personality.

However, the gearbox of the conscience, which was intended to amplify the reality, seemed cut out of the landscape.

Leadership: Do you attribute a unique value to your situation in the context of an Alter-Ego comprised of what isolates you and what draws you close to your secret springs of motivation?

I turned more and more into a magician, but into a Wilhelm Storitz with a sharp sword that could penetrate any material body, just as easily as in every heart. With every drop of blood, every tissue, every cell, an invisible force was imposing itself more and more, triggering questions waiting for answers. Un dernier spasme de la défaite . A deep wound that could be healed only in great secrecy.

My secret motivation, from a long line of unanswered searches, was to get to know myself by studying a different world, by approaching a new theme in psychology, by assimilating a more complex and ambiguous identity, one in which darkness is given legitimacy in the order of existence instead of being denied in favor of burdensome perfection.

A new personality, a different way of being, a Wilhelm Storitz possessing all the complexity of passions, feelings and human beliefs. A person loaded with mystery and the holder of some long-buried secrets – the secrets of a mysterious state, invisible, but suffocating like a tightly-screwed cordon around a curtain.

A wave of blood was gushing coldly and cutting, while another one warm and precious receded suddenly like the ocean’s water, leaving behind a wet beach. An acute sense of reality, the measured pride of my character’s metamorphosis.

The same whisper, fierce and seething like a drop of whiskey in the desert, pushed backward "Investigate ! Investigate ! Investigate." Just like an invisible body that starts to regain its physical form, appearing in the supreme convulsions of becoming. In somehow definite pleasure, by making place in every nerve of my body. A new reality. The last deadline in order to meet my unseen enemy: myself.

Leadership: Do you connecting yourself to the two terminals of your personality to induce yourself a direction towards Good or Evil??

There is one thing more difficult than changing yourself, and this is the bet made with you – of not changing yourself.

A reorientation, the possibility of a renaissance, a revival of your most beneficial and important qualities, by an impulse of the will, the development of a creative energy through a renewal of the "Man" within you, all these are just some filaments that measure on a single wire that magnetic bobbin, which if it is not interrupted can give a higher impetus to the leadership.

Even so, a simple source, such as a battery, has two terminals, one positive and the other one negative, between them existing a difference of potential. You cannot be relaxed and tense at the same time; you cannot go forward with stubbornness and determination, repeating the same mistake, always hoping to get a different result – a positive one.

Before reaching the destination, before embracing the leadership, you must connect the two terminals of your personality "to make yourself unseen" and "to show you in the light of reality" through a more comprehensive and a more open circuit. So that would rise a new current, based on a bolder, and a more progressive configuration, such as "I am who I am supposed to be" or "I'll do what I was supposed to do" from the point with a lower potential, to the one with a higher potential.

When you are unseen, your orientation changes for the worst, because you gather within yourself truths from an adversarial experience that rejects inclusion and social condition, disorienting your entire psychic structure. You begin to see an intransigent attitude similar to the man who relates to God, maintaining his true identity in a security and alert context or in a threat and intimidation context.

The leadership, from the first until the last impulse to get up to the height, needs a great potential that could make a change. First of all, it is necessary the piercing of that isolator, which prevents your ability to be what you are supposed to be. An escape from the reality that does not suit you, hostile, injurious, or that does not fulfill you enough.

Leadership: Can you detect your "Wilhelm Storitz" syndrome only when your valuable content ends below the expectations that the inability to be a reflex of greatness justify?

Once you create a fabulous world through the merit of transforming yourself into someone else because of the power to make yourself unseen, beyond the aspects that could be improved at the level of building a great character, you will have to plead your beliefs in greed, arrogance, lack of respect, persecution and hostility.

The barrier in the way of the creative energy transfer that can undeniably highlight your leadership qualities is given by the estrangement of yourself. A common phenomenon that occurs in the cases of discharges with positive energy, and laden with negative energy. Be careful not to get lost in someone else's personality !

Investigate ! Investigate ! Investigate ! Investigate the past, investigate the present, try to predict the future and look if not by chance you are the creation of an Alter-Ego. Examine yourself very well, and look if not by chance begin to appear some discordant notes between "the one you are" and "the one you are not supposed to be".

An unseen opponent, you yourself, changed at 180 degrees. A Wilhelm Storitz who, possessing all the complexity of passions, feelings and human beliefs, can take over all your conscious, by transforming you into the person that you never wanted to be, into the personality that does not honor a leadership of quality.

Do you find yourself in front of some contradictory truths of your true nature? Through your actions, through your system of values, through the thoughts that you gather, are you transforming yourself into another personality - created by an Alter Ego? Are you dressing the robe of a personality, which negatively marks your leadership? Can you pass that last deadline in order to meet your unseen enemy: you yourself?

What do you do when you wake up stuck in the elevator, without knowing when and how you will get out of there?

To substitute yourself to another personality it is like waking up stuck in the elevator, without knowing when and how you will get out of there. You can only wait for the arrival of some help, or you can suffer a fatal reaction.

Or, you can initiate your own rescue, giving away the curtain of vulnerability and distributing yourself into a superhero role, in which you must give all of yourself. A role, in which the power to be yourself, discovering your full characteristics and assuming everything you do, is the most important advantage to get rid of the influence of an Alter-Ego, thus defeating the symptoms of "Wilhelm Storitz" syndrome.

The law of the unique personality highlights the uncertainty that you feel when you are at the point of turning yourself into someone else. In leadership, you do not have to change your personality, but you must shape it, to refine it in order to be as close to an ideal whose coordinates are widely accepted.

At the same time, highlights the feeling of guilt towards yourself, towards your weakness - that you are not who you are supposed to be, that you understand things differently than they are in reality, and that you look at everything with less lucidity. Nevertheless, all this new press, replacing the old one, all this amalgam of energies and vibrations directed elsewhere, takes place in a private framework. Everything depends on you, to equip this framework with a kind of stronger "to be" that does not succumb to the influences and pressures, alien of the leadership of quality.

Trace the coordinates of your own identity, without substituting yourself to another personality.

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